This sounds cliche….but I’m just gonna say, some people hurt other people out of there own comfort. It’s been said plenty of times. Some people bully and verbally put down others dowm to make themselves feel better. People will say hurtful things, but we can’t hate them for it, because God simply loves them too. As much as words hurt, we have to forgive in order to heal. In order to grow into who God planned us to be, we have to forgive, because that’s what God consistently does for us from the very beginning we were born and before then.
Ephesians 4:32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you. Words hurt alot, but God’s healing can cover up so much of what words damage can do. Sure we all have scars but scars are what make us strong, and God sometimes let’s things happen to make us stronger. He can heal us from anything no matter how deep the pain.
Psalm 147:3 He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.
But putting other people down because we’ve been put down ourselves won’t get us anywhere,it will only make us even more bitter enstead of forgiving. Building others up brings joy and makes others happy, making others happy should make us happy, beside the point, it’s what we ought to do. How else would the world change? We would all be putting others down because we’ve been put down ourselves .
1 Thessalonians 5:11 Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.
Remember no matter the lies that creep in your mind maybe from what others said to you or what you may tell your self on a bad day. You aren’t a mistake.
Psalm 139:14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works and that my soul knoweth right well.
There isn’t enough love in the world.
She is more precious than rubies, and all the things thou canst desire are not to be compared unto her.
You are way more then what may have been said to you. But I find comfort after in when this sometimes happens, that God also stands up for us,he knows what’s said and what’s wrongfully said that hurts, and how it effects us. There’s dramatic things said to others that cause deep pain and it’s not okay. It isn’t that God is okay with it, that we ought to forgive to be like him,but as he heals, he helps us stand against those who seek for us pain.
But thou, O Lord, art a shield for me my glory, and the lifter up of mine head.
Remember that being kind saves other peoples hearts from being hurt, because hurt people sometimes tend to hurt others.